Urinary incontinence: simple, practical steps to stop leaking
Leaks happen. Whether it’s a little drip when you laugh or sudden urges that make you run for the bathroom, urinary incontinence is common — and you can do a lot about it. This page gives straight, useful tips you can try today and explains when you should get medical help.
Types and quick causes
There are a few common types: stress incontinence (leaks from coughing, sneezing, lifting), urge incontinence or overactive bladder (sudden strong need to pee), and mixed incontinence (both). Causes include weak pelvic floor muscles, pregnancy and childbirth, prostate issues, nerve problems, urinary tract infections, some medicines, and menopause or hormonal changes.
If leakage started after a UTI, surgery, or new medication, or if you have pain or blood in the urine, see a clinician right away. Those signs can mean an infection or other conditions that need faster care.
Practical self-care that helps
Pelvic floor exercises (Kegels) are the first thing many people try. To do them: tighten the muscles you’d use to stop peeing, hold 3–5 seconds, relax 3–5 seconds, and repeat 10 times. Do three sets a day. If you aren’t sure you’re doing them right, a physiotherapist can help with biofeedback or guided sessions.
Bladder training works well for urge incontinence. Keep a pee diary for 3 days: note times you go and when leaks happen. Then slowly push your bathroom trips later by 10–15 minutes each week. Over time your bladder gets used to holding more.
Small lifestyle changes matter: cut back on caffeine and fizzy drinks, limit alcohol, avoid drinking large amounts before going out, and maintain a healthy weight (losing even a few kilos can reduce leaks). Timed voiding — going to the toilet on a schedule — helps people with predictable patterns.
Absorbent pads, liners, and Waterproof underwear make life easier while you work on fixes. Look for products with good odor control and a comfortable fit. For sexual activity or exercise, special guards or liners can help you feel confident.
When lifestyle steps aren’t enough, medicines can help. For overactive bladder, doctors often prescribe antimuscarinics (like oxybutynin or tolterodine) or a beta‑3 agonist (mirabegron). Each drug has pros and cons, so talk side effects and interactions with your provider. Vaginal estrogen creams may help some postmenopausal women with mild stress symptoms.
Surgical or procedural options exist for moderate to severe cases: mid-urethral slings for stress incontinence, Botox injections into the bladder for strong urgency, or sacral neuromodulation (a small implanted device) to calm bladder signals. A urologist or urogynecologist can explain what fits your situation.
Want deeper reading? GoGoMeds has related articles on bladder problems, female UTI relief, and pelvic health that explain drug choices and real-world tips. If leaks limit your life, start with a pee diary and pelvic floor work — then talk to a clinician about next steps. Small steps often bring real change.